It sounds easier than it is.

Find what you love and still be you. Your direction should be a bit selfish here. What do you like to do? What have you liked to do. Run with it.
There is a lot more support out there. From Parental Alienation groups to facebook awareness sites.
Please email me you believe there is anything I should have on the site. Thank you.
I Needed to emphasize something that has grown to be apparent. As a parent or extended family member you will be pushed to your breaking limits and sometimes beyond. It is a fine line when a parent or person involved looses it. The community (Lawyers, judges) that your are in, do not listen. From CPS, your own lawyer, the Judge it seems that they do not care. It is psychologically frustrating, and you feel hopeless, suicidle or worse.  Some of you have experienced therapists that lack the understanding of parental alienation while others are lucky enough to have educated and compassionate people in your life.
There are people and parents in the ether and online that have brought families back together. They bring an understanding to you, in what seems to be an island that nobdy else comprehends.  I have my journey as you have yours, and it has not been an easy one for us. They understand what life is like in the middle of a mental breakdown.
We can always remember there is help and support for the special class of people that we are.

Things to do in the mean time (Weird transition, yeah I know)